Forgiveness

So I often ask myself a question are those who hurt us will hunt us forever if not forgiven? I think now I know that the true answer and only answer is yes. By being upset on someone over something they said or done you only end up hurting yourself. I am not less of the person if they no longer part of my life or they chose to be only partially involved in it. People make their own choices. I should not blame them for anything I should just let them go in my mind and forgive them for making them those choices. I can not judge then although sometimes it is extremely hard not to do. I should just think that if they were wrong in something or did something bad to me this will in their conscious. I forgive them and wish them happiness. I forgive them because maybe it was not a mistake maybe it had to be done. I forgive them that for a short or long while, but they showed me something new, they helped somewhere and somehow and for that alone they deserve to be forgiven. I get upset a lot as I am very sensitive person however I must remember that being upset is not going to be solution for them. In certain age I have come to realise that forgiveness is the key to happiness and harmony. I have a lot to learn still about this, however I am happy for today and thankful that today I had this thought in my head.