Judjaments

How bad is that we live in free society yet we are not allowed to do or say certain things because we are scared to be judged or bullied into something. Sometimes it is not just your neighbours opinion you are scared of, but it is actually the opinion of your own friend. I have an answer for you all here....we don't live in free society. We are trapped in traditional way of thinking and sometimes we think we have a right to judge someone knowing that we never been in their shoes or walked their path of life. We think that any decision they made was wrong because it was clearly thought of and we would never do anything like this. I guess never say never. I have learned this hard way, but I did now. Also I love when people tell me they believe in God, but yet they can not obey one simple rule - do not judge other people. I thought religiouse people should be the most kind people of all and accept everyone for who their are with all ther faults. I guess my view on religiouse people are slightly out of date. Today we all claim to believe in God, go to church every Sunday, don't miss any church celebrations, don't drink, don't have sex, prey every night and day.....however we still judge, get jealous, get envy of what other people's have, gossip and spread lies and think that church will somehow save us. Really? Is this how it should be? I can safely say I am save, because I don't claim to believe in God when I have yet a lot to work on and just preying won't save me. I consider what can save me is to remember judging others is very bad, being bad and unfair friend to others is bad, to look down on people is pure evil. Yes people claim to believe in God, but do they really believe in God? Do they really follow those rules in bible? I really hope one day I will meet that one pure and religious person who will prove me wrong. I have yet to find this out.