Friends

   Friends. How do we know when they for life? 

   We don't know. I guess we know in our heart who is and who is not. People come and people go. 

   However I am thankfull for today and that I have great people in my life. Friends I have to admit my 

   life with you would be dull and grey. Thanks for loving me and taking me just the way I am. 

   Thanks friends. 

I think I am datable :)

Some people say that I am too open about my feelings on Internet. Good. I like it that way. 

So am I datable or not? So I thought to ask people around, do they think I am datable or not? 

Sometimes we want to know what makes other people to be attracted to us? 

Is it our style of clothing, our inner world, our way of looking at things...what exactly is it? 

When do we know we are success? Do we have to be success? What exactly makes me different from others? 

Am I stronger or smarter? Am I prettier then others? Am I weird? Do I stand out? 

Never ending questions. However I would love to know what exactly I need to have to be datable?! Do I have to speak 5 different languages, work in top profession, cook like a pro and dress like a designer? What makes me to be desired by opposite sex? 

Do I have to be all of those above to be desired? Really??? Somehow I think no. Somehow I believe that it really is not just about what you do and what you have achieved, it is about you and only you. If you are happy with who you are right now, people will see it and will love you for who you are. Yes I agree we need to develop and challenge ourselves, but only for ourself. We need to be happy for us, within us, but not for others. We don't need to be challenged by anyone, only our inner voice. We don't owe anything to anyone, but us. 

So my final line will be. We are datable when we are completely happy within us and want to share our happiness with the  world. I am hopeless romantic and you know what I totally love it! 

All by myself

So tomorrow the day that all single people hate and all couples love right? 

Do we really need this one day to tell someone that we love then or should we do this on daily basis? 

Do we really need only one day to care about someone and surprise them? Seriously...this is kind of strange, don't you think? 

So somehow I don't feel that I miss out on something...right? :)

I am Datable

So one...two...free...four......fifty five....we meet people all the time and we connect with people all the time...

My name is Yulia...I am 27 and I consider myself to be outgoing and friendly girl....I creative, but ultra lazy or shall I just say easily distracted by life around me...I am daydreamer and big one...

What do you say on your 1st date? What questions you ask them or you want them to ask you? Can you be open with them and be yourself or shall you dress to impress? What is wrong to do and what is wright to do? 

Don't you ever get bored of people when people turn into numbers...you just don't care anymore. Numbers game can be fun, but only for a short while...after everyone just looks and talks same, don't you agree? 

So you dress to impress, talk to connect and eventually after date number fifty something you just don't care anymore and want to just stay single forever...

So question here shall we date or not? 

For now...well...datable 

Happiness is within in us.

I sometimes wonder as to why people struggle to be alone. Why they want to be surrounded by other people? Is it because they scared of loneliness? It is because they scared of being left alone forever? What are exactly those fears? 

People say that if you are not bored of your own company you will always have loads of friends. We should remember that being on our own is time when we discover who we really are and what we need. I agree with this and understand why we need to be single. Single life is given to us to find our true calling, explore our inner world and to discover what we really need from life. 

We have got to learn to love that person within us and be happy with who we are before we can let someone else into our life. We have got to discover what we want and what is our purpose for being here. 

We have got to accept that being selfish is not a bad thing. You only live once and this is your only chance to get from life only things you desire and craving for. If you want a great a successful job you work towards it to succeed in it, if you want travel the world you work towards it and ask universe to give you it. However whatever you wish for will only be given to you if you will accept yourself for who you really are, will be happy with yourself this moment and will understand that you deserve to be happy as anyone else on this planet. 

Happiness is within us. However we are only happy when we are in agreement with ourselves and we know exactly what we want.

Lessons we learn

I was always curious to find out if I can ever be in open relatinship. I thought that maybe it can work and I know it can work for some people, but dose it work all the time or there is a full stop. 

I have realised that even if you don't think you can fall in love with that person you will still get attached to them, maybe not straight away but you will. Someone will get hurt. It maybe you or it maybe them. 

We think that we can switch off our feelings and be totally mechanical about our feelings, but eventually we realise that we are humans and we can feel. We don't want to be hurt and normally we would not want to hurt others. 

This is my opinion now. This is what I have learned. I am glad I had this lesson as it tought me a lot about myself. I am glad that I can be responsible for my actions and realise that somethings must be learn through experience. I am happy that I met that person and they will stay in my heart. I won't forget them. 

Darkness

Somedays I feel very scared. 

However I choose to not look back and see darkness behind me, because I know there is light in from of me. 

I see light and I follow it, because it will bring me where I need to be.